Power of a Dad

I thought about a memory of 5-6 yrs ago when I was much younger.

It was Sunday afternoon about 1 or 2 PM, me and family, 6 of us were just arriving at S Plaza, and we were getting on the elevator (near the parking lot) to go to the top floor.

However, before the elevator door was closing, 2 people walk in and another 2 people who were employees of a certain electronic store also tried to get into the elevator with their BIG ass trolley...! it was pretty cramped already but adding the trolley is just very nyoh nyoh ! *facepalm*

We; me, my brothers and Mom were trying to squeeze to the side and my lil sister at that time was much more smaller. She stood with my Dad at the back of the elevator.

Then, the stupid trolley guy kept trying to push in the damn trolley, it almost hit my sister. I was just at the side, annoyed. And my Dad who were quiet all the while, ticked and super power-ish KICK the damn trolley along with the guy out of the elevator, gave deadly stare at them and coldly say, "Didn't u see there is a kid there? You almost hit my daughter with your Trolley you piece of shit."

We were astonished and awed. I swear the trolley guy turned green with pure horror in their eyes. And the 2 people (presumable the customers who bought the stuff on the trolley) were dead silent and looking down on the elevator floor.

The elevator doors automatically closing and as we reach the top floor, we walked out the elevator and my Dad turned around and ask us, "So, what do you guys wanna eat?" 

And we couldn't help but saying, "Dad! Omg, that was awesomee!" 

My Mum on his side just shake her head, she must be shocked as well but glad my Dad did somethin to protect my lil sister.

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I don't think I'll ever forget that in my life.. the power of a Dad.

He was always cool and easy going but that moment when he saw my sister almost hit by the trolley guy, he turn into the hulk for a while.

My Dad is indeed not a predictable guy <3

Complicity Rants!

It's the easiness of people to be corrupted by words, left a deep space in my heart.

It's undeniable that I've personally used this sort of method in the past to manipulated people's opinion and thoughts. I'm not a saint, sometimes we want something so bad we try to deter people's way of seeing things and to get what we want.

I think I do that a lot when it comes to my parents, the lads believe me every time, or at least they appear like they believe me ;P

But then when we said the wrong codes of words or the wrong combination of words, the result can be quite  intimidating *facepalm*

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Since a kid I've always approached people and I enjoyed good times being surrounded with friends and acquaintance. I have always enjoyed the habit of not having problems with anyone. Agreeing when I agree and just ignore it when I disagree. Let's just say I wasn't used of having enemies my entire youth.

Life was peaceful back then, I have no memories of betrayals, arguments, disappointments, backstabbing, scheming and lies splattered across my face.

But adulthood, *phew* I have now come to believe that you can't pass your 20s without at least thinking of kicking somebody in the face at least once a week. 

Or....

It might just be PMS, lols

In other words, I think I have created an entirely different sort of image since my days back in college. 

Nowadays I stood up a lot with things that I heartily agree to, and I kinda get in arguments with things that I disagree with. 

Utterly just simply my self-defense being activated.

I especially hate it when people attempt to use me or try to manipulate me to believe things that I already know it's not true. Manipulations as in trying to make others feel bad or having pity on their bad luck. Good God! Not everyone is lucky! If you don't like your current conditions, change yourself! Change your bad habit and do better! You are not a bloody tree. Whining doesn't help, at all. Trust me. I've been through quite a number of turmoils (Serious, legally and mentally) and i don't see the use of being in the slump everyday. Feel bad and ponder a couple of days, afterwards you kick back and fly up like a bloody superman!!

Sometimes, .. I see couples being lovey dovey and it is so beautiful I feel like watching a romantic movie. And marriage, oh how beautiful it is. Go love and get married, but make sure you know that you are the one who choose your partner and you are prepared for it, in 20-30 yrs your lover gonna get OLD and shaggy. Together with you! Most wives will be a nagger all the time over smallest matter and most husbands are most likely to get their 2nd puberty and develop a certain obsession towards things like singing, fancy cars or travelling or terrible ones like finding another woman to gambling? I don't know. 

In lucky cases old couples reconcile, tolerate and get thru life like it's a ride from heaven.

holding hands everywhere even though their legs are shaking while they walk.

In SunPlaza , a couple of months back I've seen old couple, a granny helping a granpa to sit on a restaurant and read a menu to him. Even wipe his little droll of his thin lips.

I don't know if they argue in the past, but it seems like a fantastic things to do as a couple when you are old and lame.

That's the ideal of getting old i think.

But i guess since I'm not that old yet, lets focus on having a freakin futuristic flat, a bentley, a huge monthly income and a nice vacation across the world. Ok?